The lighter side of things:

1. the day the xray technologists couldnt find my lung, the looks on their faces was priceless
2.  my granddaughters who have become my white knights and who tell their mom if grandma is crying, lol
    that's alot
3.  my kids; who say mom cries when she used to smoke; ie; after dinner, lunch, breakfast, upon rising
4.  never quit smoking and get diagnosed with cancer at the same time; its a real bitch